More tips...When Dating Girls you must know

Get off to a great start with any woman using these general guidelines about what women value in a man.

If you're trying to discern what women want, it's probably a good idea to first get a grasp on what they don't want. Instead of analyzing what women love about men, let's take a look at what they don't love about men - and how you can use this information to your advantage.

Insecurity

When playing the dating game, don't get too crafty. Women dislike a man who attempts to woo them with meaningless flattery but, even worse, they hate it when men fail to show interest at all. There's such a thing as being too cool. As unfair as it may be, women are used to being pursued, and that means you have to be the pursuer. So abandon your insecurities and ask her out, already! This doesn't mean you should immediately pour your heart out to her, overwhelming her with your every little thought about her lips, her eyes and the 14 children you imagining having together. Save something for your follow-up dates and be complimentary, but controlled, during your first few dates.

Confidence is one of the personality traits that women admire most in a man, so if you have the confidence to put yourself on the line and take risks, that's enormously attractive. If you're sure of yourself, a woman will be sure that it's a good idea to be in a relationship with you. It's as simple as that. Women often adore the shy wallflower, but not if he's too insecure to make a move.

Insecurity can work against you on another level, as well. If you're insecure in a relationship, exhibiting jealousy when your partner talks to other men or always moaning that you're not good enough, you'll drive her away - probably into the arms of someone more confident.

The Boring Nice Guy

Women value spontaneity in a man. They like those enigmatic guys - the ones who'll surprise them. This is probably why so many women seem to inexplicably fall for "bad boys" - it's not that they want to get hurt (although that's often the result) but they enjoy the excitement of being with someone who keeps things from getting dull. So don't get locked into that daily routine too easily. So don't be too predictable - instead of giving her the usual chocolates and flowers on Valentine's Day, surprise her with a home-cooked meal. Make an unexpected visit to her workplace. Buy her a puppy. Whatever you do, just be creative and keep her guessing!

Dishonesty

This is probably not too surprising - no one likes a dishonest partner. Women want to be treated with respect, and that means telling her the truth. So if you take her out on a date but don't see the relationship going anywhere, don't tell her you'll call her - tell her, nicely, that she's terrific but you don't think you should keep seeing each other. Communication is important, whether on a first date or after five years of marriage. Honesty is both ethical and considerate. Just as you hate it when she tries to get you to read her mind, don't expect that she can read yours.

Honesty is even more important if you hope for the relationship to last for the long term. If you lie to your partner, you're dooming your relationship. Even during the break-up stage, a women deserve honesty. Don't feed her cliches - just tell her the truth of why you feel it's best to end the relationship.

Laziness

Not the kind of laziness that means you lounge around on the couch all weekend watching sports, although many women find that distasteful, too. No, the laziness we're talking about is the kind you exhibit when you dismiss her feelings as irrational or the result of her period. If she's upset about something, take the time to discuss it with her. Don't brush off her by blaming them on her menstrual cycle. Engage in open, honest communication about issues that come up in your relationship - don't make her do all the heavy lifting by making her responsible for all the emotional work. If you don't take genuine interest in her concerns, it makes her feel like you're disinterested in her as a person.

Hygiene

Women are expected to make themselves physically attractive. From their hair and makeup to shaving, plucking and waxing, they go through a lot to look and smell their best - so it shouldn't be too much to ask that you make an effort, too. Go to the gym, shave every day, and make sure you wear deodorant. Paying attention to your own grooming not only shows that you value yourself, but that you care about how you present yourself to her.

Different women find different things distasteful, of course - women are individuals, after all. While these tips are a good general guidelines, the best way to know what turns a woman off is to ask her. Be well-groomed, honest and spontaneous, and you're off to a great start with any woman.

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Young Russian Woman Doctors... and their Foreign Husbands

When foreign men search through the Internet and see many of the Young Russian ladies they are often surprised at how many of these young ladies have a higher education. Of great interest to these men are the number of young women, 23 to 25 years of age who put there education and profession of that of a doctor. Many of the men have a hard time believing this and keep asking the same questions regarding this being a doctor, over and over again.

Perhaps, even you have asked the same question: Is it possible for these young women to be a doctor?

Yes, guys, it is possible and I want to explain a little bit about the educational system in Russia. Believe me, I know what I am talking about because I finished the medical university myself, in Russia. Don’t expect a detailed report in this short article, as it is not my goal today but rather a short and general picture.

In Russia, students usually finished middle school, which is equivalent to American high schools, when they are 17 years old.

Those, who wish to become doctors, enter into the medical University immediately. They finish middle school in June and by August have pass the entrance exam to the university. In September they begin their first year as students of the medical university. Each medical University has a strict program. And students can not choose their own schedule or classes. They have to go to the University EVERY day for 6 years. Classes begin a 8.00 a.m. and continue on till 5.00 p.m. every day except Sundays. Of course after school they have a great deal of homework

They have very short vacation after New Years from 10-14 days and about one month in the summer. June is a completely busy month because they final exams at the end of each year and in July they have internships in the hospitals. This practice continues until the middle of August and a new school year begins again in September. As in the previous year, there are no choices of classes. The curriculum is defined by the school

There is literally no missing of classes whether for illness or any other reason. If a student is ill, they must make up for the missed classes and prove to the teacher that they know the material

If young woman gets married and then pregnant, she has opportunity to miss one year of her studies and then return to the same level which she missed. It is call “academic vacation“

Very often a pregnant woman will choose another alternative, that of continuing on in classes, uninterrupted until the birth of the baby. Women who chose not to miss a year by taking the “academic vacation” do so without any special considerations given to them. They don’t want to miss a year and continue going to school as other students They will be treat as all other students are, and will attend University every day. When it comes time to deliver the baby, these women miss about three to five days of school and then returns to classes.

The academic pace is very difficult, the courses are very stringent and the hours that need to be devoted to study are very lengthy. The first three years of study has a great deal of attrition. More than a third of the students who enter the first year, drop out by the third year. Virtual all who remain will go on to finish their studies

Beginning in the third year students study clinical disciplines such as surgery, therapies, ophthalmology, gynecology and others. Their lessons are conducted no only in school but at special hospitals. These hospitals have special auditoriums where the students can study the theoretical part of their curriculum and after classes get to see patients and obtain practice skills. This has nothing to do with the summer internships, which they still must attend from June through the middle of August. After six years of university level classes these student are required to take and pass a government exam. Upon successful completion of the government exam, they are ready to take up residency to continue on to being a medical doctor. So, lets do the math. A young woman enter the university system at 17 and spend six years to graduate That makes her 23 when she gets her medical degree to be called doctor. That does not mean she has finished her education because she still has to take up residency in a hospital and is still under supervision.

It is not that much different in the American system. A young woman graduates high school at 18 and enters a four year university. After that she has three more years of medical school. If all is well, she graduates with her medical degree.

Let’s see, enters college at 18 plus 4 years of university and 3 years of medical school. This young women will be 25 when she becomes a resident at a hospital.

It reality there is only one year’s difference between a young Russian girl and a American girl.

Russian doctors seem to have a heart from gold. Doctors in Russia work very hard and earn very little money and often times work for months before they are paid by the government. But their devotion to their profession is one of being commendable. Their concerns for their patients far out ways their concern for money. Because of this low pay, these women doctors who have placed their name on the Internet are very surprised when a foreign man pays a great deal of attention to the fact that they are doctors.

But in the western world the opposite holds true and if you married a Russian woman who happens to be a doctor, she will be surprised and shocked when she sees how much respect and attention is paid to western medicine. She will even be more astounded to learn the type of life style a western doctor has compared to those of the former Soviet Union.

So, what type of family situation can you expect when you marry a Russian doctor? I want to discuss a few common situations that can occur. I personal know about them, because I know a lot of the Russian doctors thru my own website for immigrants.

1. Woman who have decided to pass the exams and practice medicine in USA.

She has a very supportive husband who respects her wishes and encourages her to study for the one to two years it may take before she can take her board exams He is the type of man who fully supports the family, paying for all the expenses his wife will incur to complete her studies. He is also willing to relocate if his wife needs to set up hospital residency in another state knowing that he will see his wife very little as she spends 12 to 16 hours a day in the hospital.

The number of men willing to go to this length for his wife: a very small percentage

2. Women want to study and pass the exams but is prevented from doing so because of family situations:

Unfortunately, the family unit cannot survive without a two income household. Because she has not had her education recognized by the authorities where she lives, the only jobs available to her are low paying, entry type jobs. This does not allow her the time or the means to get the continuing education she would need to apply for a medical license.

The percentage of women in this position is very large,

3. The husband doesn’t want his wife to work at all.

He doesn’t care that she is a doctor. He just want a women with “old family values” who will stay at home to cook clean and be a “wife”.The chances of finding and keeping this kind of woman is very slim but he may just be lucky enough to find such a woman who is willing to give up her life long profession and trade it in for a apron and title of housewife..

The percentage of women in this category; very small!

4. Women who are content with the situation:

There are many woman in a similar position as number 2 above but are still able to get some education. These woman usually try to find work in the medical field although the income is low. They have given up on being a doctor but still want to work in the medical field and take the low paying jobs that are offered.

Percentage of women in this category is also large.

5. Alternatives to Medicine

Even though the understand the prestige of being a doctor in the western world as compared to Russia, they desire to pursue other avenues and leave their medical degree behind.

5 Tips About Russian Girls

Please try to remember that Russian girls are not from another planet, they are just from another country.

With that in mind don’t expect them to be that much different from the women of your own country.

Do you know the expression: “Even the most beautiful French woman cannot give more than she can give“? So, don’t expect a young Russian woman or girl to be a very secure partner if you are more than twice her age. Would you expect this from a very young girl, from your own country? Young Russian women are no different.

If you are looking for women who are willing to stay home and do only one thing, being a house-wife, whose only responsibility will be to take care of the kids, cook and clean and dutifully wait for you to come home--you are looking for your future wife in the wrong country.

After she begins to speak and better understands your language and becomes more acclimated to life in your country, she will be not very much different from most of the women in your own land. Russian women are the dominate force in the typical Russian family. Don’t expect them to change completely during a plane ride as they fly to your country.

Finding and eventually bring a Russian woman to you can be a very expensive proposition.

Before she will be able to be by your side, you will be spending a great deal of money. Your expensive will include marriage agency fees, your tour to Russia to see you intended, fees for various documents, perhaps immigration attorney fees and other expenses, necessary to secure your future bride’s arrival.

These fees and trips and other expenses could cost you some money.

Also you need to be aware of how Russian women maintain themselves.

These are women who have endured a lot of hardships and to offset these day to day hardships, pamper themselves. They think nothing of having very nice and chic clothing. It is not uncommon for them to get a manicure and or pedicure weekly. They enjoy and often insist on having their hair done weekly, at the beauty salon. So don’t be surprised if she wishes to continue her pampered life . . . it can become expensive.

Most Russian girls are very well educated.

Sometimes, while you speak with her, either through the telephone or online, in a chat, she appears to sound or act a little slow. She may appear not to understand what you are telling her. Don’t believe it.

It may appear to look that way but it is not the truth. It is possible that she has never heard of or experienced the things you are telling her or simple because she has not grasped your language sufficiently enough to understand your exact thoughts.

Remember this, for the most part, they have had a very nice education and have a habit of learning things very quickly.

You will be surprised how quickly your Russian wife begins to understand everything around her.

If you want to avoid any conflicts while dating girls, or have any uncomfortable situations, in future, do not hide the truth from her nor lie to her. Do not try to make the excuse that she can not understand those thing that are normal for you.

For Russian women, love is the very essence of the soul and the importance of what your feelings will be.

They still believe in fairy tales and you cannot bring her into a uncomfortable living environment and expect her to be happy just because you think she is with the man she loves.

Before you decide to bring her to you, think very carefully. Can you afford a second car, medical and additional automobile insurance, and so on.

Don’t make her a prisoner. Don’t withhold her access to a car. Do not prevent her from spending important hours, learning your language because, very quickly she will understand what role you have prepared her for and will compare her life with that of women in your country.

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Dating girls from Russia - Important Tips that....

...Dating Agencies Never Tell You.
And we do!

I want to share with you the following information that the Dating agencies don’t tell you on their web sites.

Many of the dating agencies claim is , how young Russian women are so family oriented and will make wonderful wives and family partners. This causes many foreign men to dream about the perfect family! A family that they have already built up in their own imagination. Please live in the 21th Century!!

Every man who has seen the Russian dating agency ads and believes in them completely, has built up in his mind, and has created his own fantasy, of what a future family with a Russian women, will be.

If the man’s dreams are based on a foundation the marriage agency has constructed and no on a healthy dose of common sense, then, most likely the relationship is at great risk of disappointment and inevitable, Failure.

The dating services help bring you together, they do not help you to stay together !

It is not their job to make your relationship last, so they don’t bother to warn you of the many pitfalls that can become you and destroy your marriage. What do you expect of your new Russian bride
and what do you really know about her?? What does she expects?!

I want to give you an example how you can read into the marriage agency advertising using a critical eye and common sense.

Try this: Go to any marriage dating agency and following their procedure to join. Look at Russian women from 21 to 25 years old. Pay close attention to what these women have written in their bio s. Do you see anything in common??? Of course you do . . . it is very obvious! Ninety percent if not more of these women have written that they have a bachelor degree. They just finished or going to finish their educational requirements. Ask yourself, WHY?

If all the dating agencies are telling you that all Russian women are very family oriented and in most

cases live to serve their husband and children, why would they spend 10 years in school and from 4-7

years at the university, getting a degree ?

Why would these young women spend the biggest part of their young life studying so hard if they are so family oriented? Why not, instead, go take domestic courses such as cooking and sewing and child rearing?

Do these women, who have spent the better part of their young lives dedicated to getting a higher education, look as women who are preparing themselves to be housewives and mothers and not have a professional career???

Yeap . . . it is look little bit like the opposite . . . if not more . . .

Here is another question:

Compared to the United States, how many children are in the average Russian family?

Is it not unusual to see in the average American family at least three children. The statistical average is 2.7 children per family. How you get a 7/10th of child I don t know, but that is the statistic!

In Russia, to see a family with three children would be quite a shock, absolutely! It is even unusual to see a Russian family with two children.

When I just came to USA, I was surprised how many pregnant women I saw on the streets! In Russia it is very seldom that you will see a pregnant woman in public. For the last few generations, Russian couples produce only one child.

By the way, it is a very big problem in Russia.

That each couple produces only one child, does not allow the population to grow but rather, stagnate. To be honest, it is not only a problem for Russia, but for all European countries.

Are you wondering why most Russian couples have only one child if Russian women are so extremely family oriented as the dating agencies promise you? Why don’t they want to have more children?

The reason is not because of a difficult economical situation, in fact you can see many countries that have much more difficult economic situations and these poor families have 5-10 children. In Russia, even wealthy families have only one child.

I can give you many more examples of what the dating agencies tell you and what you can see on your own.

Be smart enough to learn about the culture of your future wife’s country and about the circumstances that she grew up in, before you marry her. It can prevent you from making many mistakes and help you to build a happy family with an Russian woman.

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All Russian Girls want to run away from their countries

True? ....Myth?
Read.

When one searches the Internet for a Russian wife, he will be very surprised by the large number of Russian dating services. There are literally thousands of them on the Internet! Have you ever asked yourself; why that is?

It seems that all women want to do is to escape from Russia, because Russia is in a very difficult social, political and economic situation. Just a stereotype.

Growing up, it seems that each generation has their own stereotypical idea about what Russia is and how her citizens respond. For almost seventy years, Russia was a very closed nation and outsiders (other nations), could not see or for that matter, interact with the Russian citizenry. From this action of closed borders, somehow, was born the stereotype of what Russian women looked like, peasant stock, with stern looks and aged appearances.

With the collapse of the Soviet Union, the opening of borders and the birth of the Internet, the whole world astonishingly discovered just how beautiful, feminine, slender and educated, Russian women are! Foreign men were finally allowed to travel to Russia, and they saw, with amazement, the beauty and grace of the Russian woman. They looked upon these women just like kids in a candy store. The typical stereotype disappeared as quickly as melting snow in spring!

Unfortunately, as quickly as the old stereotype of Russian females disappeared, a new stereotype emerged; “All Russian women want to escape from Russia” and because of this new labeling, the Internet has so many Russian Dating agencies.

The truth of the matter is, that the percentage of Russian women who are looking for their “soul mates” through the internet is no greater than the percentage of women from western countries such as England, Canada, Australia and the United States, who are searching the Internet for their future spouse!!!!

Here is an interesting tidbit: With the population of Russia at approximately 170 million people as compared to the United State’s population of more than 250 million people, why is it that you don’t see as many dating agencies from other countries?

The answer, is a simple one... CHOICE!!!

Women, from the USA and most other Western Nations have choices to use or not to use the services of a dating agency. Almost all women from western countries have computers at home or at work. The Internet services in most of these countries are ridiculously low when compared with the cost of the same services in Russia.

Only a few very big Russian cities such as Moscow and St. Petersburg have Internet services that are more or less affordable for an average person. Russia is a huge country, with its eleven time zones from East To West and is just now establishing Internet services. It is only within the last three or four years that the Internet service providers have begun to take hold within Russia and the fees for their monthly services are out of reach to most Russian citizens. It is not uncommon for most Internet services to cost $100.00 or more, a month. With the average salary, for example, for a Russian doctor being around a $100.00, it is a luxury few citizens can afford. But, we are talking about a single woman or a one-parent household.

Do you think that the average American single mother could afford this kind of money for Internet services? So, this is the reason why you see so many Russian dating agencies! Russian women HAVE TO USE their service!

Another reason for these dating services is the language barrier. For a very long time, Russia was a closed border country and even when Russians learned English at school, without the ability to practice the use of the language on a daily basis, English basically became a dead language and these agencies also became translators.

Now that everything in Russia has changed. It is a country that is open to the world and people are now stimulated to learn English. Internet service providers are popping up all over Russia and Internet cafes are entrenching themselves in cities, big and small.

In this situation more and more women can communicate with their soul mates through the Internet without any help of a marriage agency. They don’t need translating services as they did in the past. Many women prefer to spend money on English lessons, than to pay very high prices for dating services in some agencies.

That's the reason why dating services are totally free at www.russiandatingservice.net for all the girls and women at Russia and ex USSR former countries.

People all over the world are generally the same. Nobody likes to show private letters to a stranger or to convey their most private thoughts and Internet conversations to a dating service employee for translation. They are in need of that services. But usually the choice of interpreters comes with a good relationship, almost friends, between the russian girl and the translator, that in most cases, are women.

Go dating!

When dating....please read first (Part II)

Dating Russian Girls....
Dating girls or dating women from Russia ?
Part II

Of course, I can understand these kinds of websites that gives dating services for free.

You take a risk, may be you will have someone writing to your email. It's a risk, but their policy is clear.

We are here to help you, if you need it. There are several ways to know the truth.

We can not understand the sites that you have to pay for do the following:

• Writes emails to you (you have to pay for reading) and the woman does not know about that. They say it's a kind of match! No. It's fraud.

• You are writing emails to a girl (you pay for each one) and the girl answers. You are closer to her everyday, and suddenly... her profile is not available and she won't read any email from you. What happened with all the money that you have paid for it? Dating sites does not give a refund. In my opinion it would be acceptable if for any reason your date won't be possible and the lady decides to ban you, after a discussion. Or she found the man of her dreams ..right? Loosing is part of the game. But not the simple answer that she is not available (mostly because they do not work anymore with her local agency, and that is not your fault!). It's sad, but as they feel safe because of distance sometimes they disappear without advise. It can happen. To know why, you can email us at anytime. We will give you an answer of what happened, if it is possible.

• You send a present to the lady through the dating girls-site you are registered, and the one you trust, and have a picture of the delivery... her and your present, you can see both!. But the lady never received anything. The picture was taken before with the fixed presents the site offers, so...be happy, anyway, a translator at the dating girl site will take care of saying "Thanks!"...or not?. Mistakes happen all the time. Dating girls-sites...are far away from perfection if they are a fraud. We offer links to third party sites, with no relation or you can choose the one you trust to know the true.

• Ladies always write saying they have no email and no computer or Internet access .... obviously the answer of a dating site...Mr. You have to keep paying our service for dating. Perhaps the lady is real, but as she does not speak English and needs an interpreter from the dating site ?, well, you know, some words are missing.... How a lady with a profile telling you she's a programmer or a Web designer has no email, no computer, no internet! How can she work!...?

What can you do about dating ?....
Join us! and get surprised in the dating girls on line world !

Dating Russian girls or women is possible!

Just do dating girls... the right way!

Sincerely

Daniel Albert

When dating girls....please read first!

Dating girls or dating women from Russia ?
Part I

First of all, think if you've been victim of dating girls fraud, dating Russian girls scam and any other things in free and paid dating Russian girls sites. Some sites which have a good reputation, are fraud dating girls sites, believe it or not! and now you will know the truth, and you will find the way to have some help in this kind of dating girls relationships which are not physical, most of the couples never left that kind of virtual dating, and a huge percent...is fraud dating.

You won't have a date ever!

I have to tell you that many of the girls or women in Russian dating sites are true and have good intentions. They are looking for a better life, like you, but have less opportunities. So here they are. In another way I would like put a title saying

Please! do not believe!!

Anyway, be smart! If you're 55 years old and you are dating girls in her 19's or nearly, stop and think for a moment. Something goes wrong. It can happen, "wise is seduction" too! but you can also look for a woman near 35 to 40 years... It will absolutely work! It’s a better choice, believe me.

See you in part II? don't miss it!

Go dating!

Daniel Albert