Please try to remember that Russian girls are not from another planet, they are just from another country.
With that in mind don’t expect them to be that much different from the women of your own country.
Do you know the expression: “Even the most beautiful French woman cannot give more than she can give“? So, don’t expect a young Russian woman or girl to be a very secure partner if you are more than twice her age. Would you expect this from a very young girl, from your own country? Young Russian women are no different.
If you are looking for women who are willing to stay home and do only one thing, being a house-wife, whose only responsibility will be to take care of the kids, cook and clean and dutifully wait for you to come home--you are looking for your future wife in the wrong country.
After she begins to speak and better understands your language and becomes more acclimated to life in your country, she will be not very much different from most of the women in your own land. Russian women are the dominate force in the typical Russian family. Don’t expect them to change completely during a plane ride as they fly to your country.
Finding and eventually bring a Russian woman to you can be a very expensive proposition.
Before she will be able to be by your side, you will be spending a great deal of money. Your expensive will include marriage agency fees, your tour to Russia to see you intended, fees for various documents, perhaps immigration attorney fees and other expenses, necessary to secure your future bride’s arrival.
These fees and trips and other expenses could cost you some money.
Also you need to be aware of how Russian women maintain themselves.
These are women who have endured a lot of hardships and to offset these day to day hardships, pamper themselves. They think nothing of having very nice and chic clothing. It is not uncommon for them to get a manicure and or pedicure weekly. They enjoy and often insist on having their hair done weekly, at the beauty salon. So don’t be surprised if she wishes to continue her pampered life . . . it can become expensive.
Most Russian girls are very well educated.
Sometimes, while you speak with her, either through the telephone or online, in a chat, she appears to sound or act a little slow. She may appear not to understand what you are telling her. Don’t believe it.
It may appear to look that way but it is not the truth. It is possible that she has never heard of or experienced the things you are telling her or simple because she has not grasped your language sufficiently enough to understand your exact thoughts.
Remember this, for the most part, they have had a very nice education and have a habit of learning things very quickly.
You will be surprised how quickly your Russian wife begins to understand everything around her.
If you want to avoid any conflicts while dating girls, or have any uncomfortable situations, in future, do not hide the truth from her nor lie to her. Do not try to make the excuse that she can not understand those thing that are normal for you.
For Russian women, love is the very essence of the soul and the importance of what your feelings will be.
They still believe in fairy tales and you cannot bring her into a uncomfortable living environment and expect her to be happy just because you think she is with the man she loves.
Before you decide to bring her to you, think very carefully. Can you afford a second car, medical and additional automobile insurance, and so on.
Don’t make her a prisoner. Don’t withhold her access to a car. Do not prevent her from spending important hours, learning your language because, very quickly she will understand what role you have prepared her for and will compare her life with that of women in your country.
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