Things are not always what they seems to be, in the dating world. There are scammers that work alone, some of them having a rest in jail at the moment!, others making frauds all around the world. These kind of scammers works alone. But there are also Agency Scams, and that's not good. Entire organizations in dating with big sites and huge profits every month.
What can you do?
What do we recommend ?
There are several ways to avoid scams.
In the case you are at free dating sites, just do not send money. That's all they want... money or a high-price-easy-to-sell good of any kind. Watches, jewelery, and....well anything.
A computer Laptop for better communications with you?..DO NOT SEND A THING!
In agencies scams, the fraud is different, you're simply emailing someone that does NOT exist.
That hurts, and not only your pocket, also hurts you.
But there are ways to find the true.
After a few emails, just to get a warmer relation with the girl do the following:
1- Ask the girl you are dating for her postal address. If she is real, you will have it in the next email.
2- Send her flowers. Although Russian dating has it's own service, we strongly recommend to use a third party service for the first time. Why?. We can know the girl exists, but this have to be understood. We work with local dating agencies and we think they are serious. We do not know what happens in the girls mind. That's impossible and we want your safest dating experience, and peace of mind. After that first approach, you are welcome to use our services anytime for better prices.
What to do then?
Just visit Google search, and type "send flowers to Russia" or the country where she lives.
These kind of services are very good. They are not involved in the Dating business and they will deliver by email a picture taken at the moment the girl you are dating receives your present. Ask for a exact model of Teddy bear or some kind of flower you like. Do not say "send her some flowers" or a dozen, or half a dozen of roses in example.
Be smart. Ask to send exactly 7 flowers or 8 or 4 or something like sounds unusual.
When you get the picture of the delivery ask for a date of delivery and see if there are exactly the amount of flowers you wanted. That's a proof.
Paranoia?
Well, perhaps a little, but dating girls involves your money, not very much and you can earn it quick and easy. But also involves your heart. Try to avoid a heartbreak, is good for no one.
You need proofs, you can get them.
If you need any tip or advice, here we are.
One more thing.
In next posts we will talk about anti-scam sites. In advance, do not trust any of them.
They are usually owned by scammers or doing illegal competition between dating sites, who gives more money to the anti-scam site owner is good, the others do not.... think where is the best, and safest, harder to find way to be a thief.
Being a Policeman? Hiding in the crowd. Do not get confused. There are antiscam sites with good intentions, but who knows how to identify them?
So, alone is better, do not believe everything you see at the Internet, some is true, some is not. Get the answer your way.
Next we will try to explain what is fraud dating, what is scam dating and what is not, from our point of view.
Regards
Daniel Albert
9/12/2007
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